What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 04:35
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
Or because she doesn’t love you back?
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
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Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
Because only you LOVED?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
Why do I sometimes hear full conversations when I am alone?
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
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Because it hurts that they are not with you?
You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
~KSR
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
Because you were just unlucky in love?
Are miracles real or do they just have natural explanations?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Or because they’re happy without you.